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James Neil

January 14, 1943 – November 1, 2018

James Goodrich
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Obituary for James Neil Goodrich

James (“Jim”) Neil Goodrich, 75, husband of Luisa Francoeur and longtime resident of Westport, CT passed away on Thursday November 1, 2018 in Yale New Haven Hospital while being treated for Acute Myeloid Leukemia.
He had a big heart which encompassed a wide variety of communities, and which embraced him in return. Jim is fondly remembered as someone who genuinely cared about others and went out of his way to render assistance. Sometimes this was to his detriment, as illustrated by an episode in Colorado when he enthusiastically helped push a stranger’s car out of the snow – only to tear loose his bicep and cut short his vacation.
After retiring from a career in business in and around New York City, Jim started a new career in the Westport Public School system. He began as a disciplinarian at Bedford Middle School and followed his last eighth-grade class to Staples High School, where he hit his stride as a substitute teacher, mentor, coach, and sports superfan over the last fifteen years. One of the first communities he found for himself at Staples was as a volunteer coach of the wrestling team, where he was able to draw on his own experience as a college wrestler at Ohio Wesleyan University (where he was proud to say he was never pinned until his last match!) and get down on the mat with students fifty years his junior.
Jim’s involvement in the Staples community was broad and deep. He served as coach of the sailing team, advisor to the Challenge Team and Barbecue Club, firm but caring Advance Placement test proctor, and organizer of fan buses and cheers for the boys’ soccer team.
Jim was born in Ridgewood, New Jersey in 1943 to the late Harry and Elizabeth Goodrich, and lived in New Jersey until college. After his graduation from OWU in 1965, followed by a stint in their admissions office, Jim was drafted into the army. He served his country from ‘66 to ‘69 as an Army Lieutenant at Ft. Davis, Panama Canal Zone. He rose from the Commander of Company B (overseeing over 250 men) to Operations & Training, where he was responsible for 1,500 indirect reports at the Battalion level. Both capacities were well above the actual rank that he carried. He executed his assignments with distinction, and was awarded the Army Commendation of Honor. Jim was a true officer and gentleman, but never let his assignments get in his way of having fun. He earned the love and respect of his troops.
His time in Panama opened Jim’s eyes to different ways of life in the world. He embraced the opportunity to spend time in Latin America and on the water, cementing lifelong passions for travel and boating. Jim and Luisa took many trips together to locations nearby and far-flung, and continued sailing and powerboating, crisscrossing the Northeast through rivers, canals, and up and down the coast, often with fellow members of their beloved Saugatuck Harbor Yacht Club. Jim’s love of sailing was so inescapably acute that as soon as he learned his daughter was pregnant with his first grandson, Jim immediately bought a small catboat on which to teach him to sail. In some seven years, he’ll be big enough to enjoy it.
Jim’s love of life -- and genuine joy in everyone he met -- extended to one of his side-gigs: marriage officiant for choice friends and loved ones. His preparation, insights and loving demeanor made the weddings he officiated special not only for the newlyweds, but for all who attended.
Jim spent time every summer since 1951 in Wellfleet, MA on Cape Cod, in a cinderblock cottage built by his parents on land gifted to them by parishioners of his father’s church. Every year his family made the trip north from New Jersey, passing through Westport. It was the views of the Saugatuck from that vacation-bound route that called him to first make his home here in 1975. Westport has been his home ever since.
In addition to his wife Luisa, Jim is survived by his daughter Lisa Page, her husband William; stepsons Bartolomaeus Ryley and Andrew McWilliams, Andrew’s partner Linsey Hempel; grandson Nicolas, and Jim’s sister Beth Millikan and her husband, Al. Jim died after receiving a stem cell transplant from his daughter in a valiant effort to, as he put it, “extend a happy life.” Indeed, it was and will be so remembered.
A memorial service will be held for Jim at the Unitarian Church, 10 Lyons Plains Road, Westport, CT on December 1st at 11:00am with a reception to follow at Saugatuck Harbor Yacht Club, 6 Great Marsh Road, Westport, CT. Condolences for the family may be left online at www.hardingfuneral.com. In lieu of flowers, donations in Jim’s memory may be made to: Hudson River Community Sailing (P.O. Box 20677, New York, NY 10011; www.hudsonsailing.org), the Freedom of the Press Foundation (601 Van Ness Ave., San Francisco, CA 94102; www.freedom.press), or Staples Tuition Grants (P.O. Box 5159, Westport, CT 06881-5159; www.staplestuitiongrants.org).

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Service Information

Saturday, December 1st, 2018 11:00am
The Unitarian Church
10 Lyons Plains Road
Westport, CT